Follow Up

I spent the better part of yesterday brooding, as you can probably tell by my previous post. It was perfect weather to be sullen. It was around 3pm when some girl friends from upstate (Rutgers New Brunswick) called to tell me that they were in town and asked me to go out to an early [...]

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don’t let karma bite you in the ass: a rant

I don’t want to write about my personal life. I really don’t but it seems like the only thing I think about, no matter where I  am. I cannot make a single wedding plan as of right now and it’s not because of money. I cannot fake a smile at work for longer than mere [...]

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Burnt Bagels For a Scrooge

The holidays are fast approaching once again and I can’t really say I’m looking forward to them. As awful as it might sound, I just see it as a large drain on my already slim wallet and waste of time. Being not exactly Christian around Christmas time sucks because it means I’ve got to go [...]

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Sunday Morning

“I know who I am, but who are you? You’re not looking like you used to You’re on the other side of the mirror So nothing’s looking quite as clear Thank you, for turning on the light Thank you, now you’re the parasite I didn’t think you had it in you And now, you’re looking [...]

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Trepidation

I must admit, I meet a lot of cool, deep interesting people through work. I sometimes get so caught up in conversation that I forget that I am there to make a living, not socialize. Sure, chatting up clients is a large part of what I do but it’s not what I’m there for. When [...]

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Oh…crap!

This Monday, the 21st, was our 3 year anniversary. (C and I) We had prior decided to spend the day in New Hope, PA. It’s a place that holds a lot of fond memories for us and has some really awesome shops, including a medieval weaponry store which I frequently have to be dragged out [...]

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Another Tarot Reading of the Day

I always use the Celtic Cross because I usually get the best results that way. 1.) The main concern: Justice – Simplest answer is a fair result. Self-examination. A need t balance your life. A moral choice. Be careful when blaming others or the alternative extreme, believing that everything is your fault. Awareness/ Action. Taking [...]

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Significant Others of Exotic Dancers/ Sex Workers

I have been meaning to write about this topic for a bit. It’s a personal debate of mine that I can never decide which side I’m on. I’d like to write about the significant others of  exotic dancers and other types of sex industry workers.  How should one be in light of their partner’s choices? [...]

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The Evolution of a Romance

We all know how it goes. There are some variations but most relationships start with a large amount of interest and attraction. The constant need to interact. The sweaty palms. The stuttering. You talk on the phone for five hours straight and see each other at any opportunity you have. Then there’s a long period [...]

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A sad truth about strippers

“I can’t stay back here [in the couch dance room] much longer or I will end up raping you.”, said the old man chuckling to himself. I went blank save for a fake smile. “Alright.”, is all I could say. Men have no idea that when they say that kind of thing to a stripper, [...]

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